Is it important to have your own private home, or do you prefer apartment or condo living, with a management company responsible for the maintenance? Do you believe a mother or father should stay at home with a child during the first six months of life? (By the way, if they do, maybe it's because they are living their lives, while you are watching them live their lives.Are you a do-it yourselfer, or would you rather hire professionals? Are you wasting the opportunity and gift to live your own life? Do you think that college graduates are smarter than people who didnt attend college? Do you feel that you can have good chemistry with someone who is moderately physically attractive to you, or is a strong physical attraction necessary? Have you identified the childhood wound that may have sabotaged your relationships in the pastthe deeply imprinted fear that made you want to escape?
Some are obvious—almost everybody knows to ask about STIs and birth control, and it makes sense to have a conversation about where the relationship is going. For example, how do you ask a guy you've just met whether he's an arrogant jerk who's selfish in bed? But that doesn't mean you can't figure it out with a few less direct questions.
Every woman, at the beginning of the relationship, should ask a guy about the following questions, and some even in the phase of seduction and courtship.
Some answers you might not like it, but it’s better to find out the truth before development of deeper feelings.
Do you prefer to clean your own home or hire a housekeeper? Is quiet important in your home, or do you prefer having music or some background noise most of the time? Have disparities in education ever been a source of tension for you in a relationship, or ended a relationship?
Has physical appearance or chemistry ever been a factor in the breakup of a relationship? Do you believe that a good mother will want to breast-feed her baby? How were you most hurt in your family; and who hurt you? Do you think most celebrities have a better, more exciting life than you do?
Despite what movies tell us, there's no hard and fast rule about when you should have sex with your new guy for the first time.