To be clear, an “online dating opener” is the content of your very first message you send to a woman online. There seems to be a huge amount of concern and angst among guys about the “right” online dating opener to use. If you do them wrong, then yes, it will damage response. (Most of the openers I send, and I have tested many, are just two sentences long.) 2. Do those four things above and you’ve instantly wiped out 95% of the problems guys have with online dating openers. Therefore, as long as it’s clear that most women receiving your opener are looking at your profile, your opener is “working”.
Online dating openers are not as important as you think they are. I’m not going to give you word-for-word examples here, but they essentially say in two sentences that she’s welcome to message me back if she likes. A woman will message you or not based on your profile, not your opener. It’s your profile that will get her to actually message you back.
Your suggestions are welcome, please just write a comment at the end. Leaving Indonesia without this experience is a bit like leaving Italia without eating pizza.
As a traveler, an easy way to get a date is to use online dating apps like Tinder.
I am ever hopeful that “the one” is perhaps new message in my inbox. I am on Active Singles and Green Singles but without a photo on each so–not very serious about those efforts.
All I want the opener to do is to get her to look at my profile, because it’s my the does all the heavy lifting.
During that time, on how many different websites have you had profiles posted? Oddly enough, most of the men I have met face to face are now friends of mine–some just email pals and some to pal around with.
I have had many email exchanges, several phone call meetings that did not go any further.
I really feel ready as I come from a traditional family and both my siblings are already married and my sister just had her first child.
I really don’t want to find myself in a “life goals” limbo where I would date a guy who only wants to have the kids someday if ever or just date for years.
Many tourists hate Jakarta because they visit it the wrong way.