It’s not for everyone, some people are just hardwired for pure monogamy. There are so many potential benefits to dating multiple guys at a time.
Follow the advice below It’s difficult to address this concern without stepping into the controversy of still-existing different societally acceptable behaviors for each gender.
I was afraid if a guy found out that I was dating someone else, he would drop me.
When I was infatuated with a new man, fantasizing that he liked me as much as I liked him, I immediately declined date invitations from other men.
First of all, the purpose of dating is to have fun; explore how emotionally and physically safe it is to be with your dating partner; learn as much as you can about this person; and ultimately discover if you are compatible for a long-term relationship (if that is what you desire).
In keeping with the purpose of dating, we advocate a conservative, defensive posture since it is our experience that there are many more people that don’t know how to date in a healthy manner than those that do.
Most relationship seekers on cyber-dating services, whether men or women are frequently talking to many potential partners through email or texts while juggling on-going possibilities and keeping back-ups in case of “fall-throughs”.